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Turn Your Bedroom into the Red Room with these Beginner Bondage Must-Haves

Turn Your Bedroom into the Red Room with these Beginner Bondage Must-Haves

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Guest Blog by Sally Fish, PR Executive @Lovehoney



If you haven’t heard of Fifty Shades of Grey, you’ve probably been living under a rock for the last few years. This erotic novel took the world by storm in 2011 and has grown in popularity ever since. Having sold over a 100 million copies worldwide and becoming the UK’s best-selling book of all time (that’s right - it even beat Harry Potter), Fifty Shades has brought BDSM to the mainstream and everyone from your work colleague to your mum is talking about it.



In the story, Christian draws up a contract for Ana to sign, outlining the acts and paraphernalia she consents to. Even if some of the rules are little more heavy handed than your usual bedroom session, the sexy list of acts and accessories can form a delicious basis for role play ensuring the honeymoon period lasts forever!



Fifty Shades fever is at an all time high right now! I've picked 10 of the sexiest mentions in Ana’s contract to offer you and your husband-to-be inspiration for a filthy tryst inspired by Fifty Shades of Grey.



1.Vibrators



 







Vibrators are an incredible tool for increasing sexual pleasure, especially during bedroom bondage. Using a vibrator to stimulate the nipples, clitoris, glans, frenulum or perineum causes your erotic nerve endings to stand to attention with a pleasure that will undoubtedly lead you on the road to orgasm city.



2.Blindfolds







Blindfolds have always been extremely popular in the bedroom. By obstructing the wearer’s vision - their senses are heightened and the element of surprise causes a thrill of anticipation. Why not use a blindfold to surprise the hen at her hen party? The possibilities are endless!



3.Floggers



 







Tease your other half with this Fifty Shades of Grey Please, Sir Flogger. Run its tails up and down their body to get their skin tingling before delivering gentle flicks to the back, bottom and thighs. When you’re ready to take it to the next level, use firm swings to create a hot sting. Its petite proportions are ideal for travel, allowing you to slip this whip into your honeymoon luggage discreetly.



4.Bondage with rope







Rope bondage offers a classic visual and a tight hold, so it’s easy to see the appeal. Beginners can find getting the knots done up (and undone) tricky and may have worries about tying the ropes too tight or in the wrong place. For those unsure about rope bondage, try some Fifty Shades of Grey Restrain Me Bondage Rope alongside the comprehensive guidance of Jay Wiseman in his Toybag Guide to Basic Rope Bondage.



 5.Bondage with tape







If ropes aren’t really your thing or you’re just starting out with bondage, bondage tape is a great alternative to more complicated restraints. Bondage tape is self adhesive, allowing you to bind wrists, ankles and other body parts together effortlessly. The Fifty Shades of Grey Still Baby Still Bondage Tape Set includes three 10m rolls which are self adhesive and extremely versatile.



6. Hands bound in front 







Binding your lover’s wrists together in front of their body allows for better balance than tying them behind the back, allowing your partner to get into better positions and support themselves with ease. The Fifty Shades of Grey Soft Limits Deluxe Wrist Tie is incredibly easy to tie, soft on the wrists and looks pretty, making it ideal for bedroom bondage beginners. Once you have your partner’s hands tied, you can indulge them with some sexy play or have them perform for you, decisions decisions!



 7.Whipping







Whips form a part of sensory play and whipping is used to enhance sensation in the fleshier parts of the body. The Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Sting Riding Crop features a silver tip that can be traced along the body to tease and smacked on the buttocks and thighs to induce a pleasurable and short-lived sting. The generous length of this riding crop makes it ideal for spanking your lover’s behind while they’re in an on-top sex position.



8.  Spanking







Nothing awakens the senses like a good spanking and a spanking paddle like the Fifty Shades of Grey Twitchy Palm Spanking Paddle will make the whole affair much easier on your hands. This satin spanker has a generous paddling surface, allowing you to hit large areas of the thigh and buttocks at the same time for maximum impact. Alternate short, sharp spanks with stroking and caressing to give a real pleasure/pain contrast.



 9. Hot Wax







If the idea of hot wax play makes you wince, why not try a massage candle? The wax melts at a lower temperature so it doesn’t feel hot when it hits the skin. The melted wax also has the texture of an erotic massage oil, allowing your lover’s initial nervousness about wax play to melt away as they enjoy the moisturizing and relaxing sensations of oiled hands running all over their body. It’s the perfect way to spend the evening whilst on your honeymoon!



10. Nipple Clamps







Nipples are incredibly sensitive erogenous zones for both men and women, so nipple clamps can seem quite an intimidating step. Why not try a pair of nipple clamps like the Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Adjustable Nipple Clamps? They’re adjustable so you can work your way up from loose grip to firm pinch and they also include weighted beads that can be tickled with a finger or a bullet vibrator for added sensation.



 



 









 

Miriam
Miriam

Miriam is the Senior PR & Campaigns Executive for The Stag Company. Originally from New Zealand, she loves fashion, animals, and travelling.

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